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There are moments in life that arrive quietly. Unremarkable at first glance but easily overlooked. For Melissa Vincent, that moment came during a routine dental exam when her dentist noticed faint gray lines beneath her tongue. She couldn't see them. She couldn't feel them. But her dentist could.
Those nearly invisible lines would change everything.
"I have never been at a loss for words," Melissa reflects. With nearly twenty years in marketing and public relations, a Communication degree from Purdue, a certificate in Social Impact Storytelling from Georgetown, and a deep love for speaking and singing at church, words have always been her currency. "All of my jobs required a lot of talking," she says.
The thought of losing that voice or the possibility of facing a life-threatening illness was unimaginable.
Melissa Vincent is a wife, a mom, a writer, and an oral cancer survivor. At the start of 2020, Melissa was managing a precancerous condition called Moderate Dysplasia with an oral surgeon. She was vigilant, doing everything right. Then the Covid-19 pandemic forced the surgeon's office to close for months, and her careful monitoring stopped.
Those months mattered. By May, when she finally returned, the disease had advanced to Squamous Cell Carcinoma, an extremely aggressive form of head and neck cancer. To save her life, surgeons performed a six-hour glossectomy, removing half of her tongue.
"I praise God that singing, speaking, and sharing my story are still possible with my 'new' tongue," Melissa says.
Melissa could have retreated after her diagnosis. Instead, she turned her pain into purpose, creating Simply Spoken Life, an online support ministry that serves as a safe space for oral cancer patients and caregivers navigating the same terrifying journey she survived.
"If those faint gray lines had gone untreated, I most likely would not be telling my story now," she says. Her website, SimplySpokenLife.com, shows what healing looks like and offers something invaluable: hope.
But Melissa knows her story began not with a cancer diagnosis, but with a dentist who was paying attention and understood that early detection is a sacred trust.
When Melissa became a patient at White & Haines Advanced Dentistry in 2025, she and Dr. Claire Rodrigues instantly connected over their shared passion for caring for others and their faith in Christ.
Dr. Rodrigues' approach reflects a philosophy Melissa's story validates: comprehensive care means taking the extra moment to examine what might seem insignificant. Those faint gray lines could be the difference between life and death.
"Early detection saved my life," Melissa emphasizes. "My dentist saw something I couldn't see."
At White & Haines Advanced Dentistry, this vigilant, compassionate care is the standard. Now, Melissa serves the practice as an oral cancer awareness advocate, offering peer support to patients. Her presence is a living testament to what early detection can accomplish.
Inspired by stories like Melissa's, White & Haines is hosting a free oral cancer screening event for the Cornelius community on March 27th, 2026, from 8am to 3pm.
"We believe oral cancer screening should be accessible to everyone," Dr. Rodrigues explains. "When we can detect abnormalities early, before symptoms appear, before pain develops, we can save lives. That's not just our job. It's our calling."
The complimentary screening is open to anyone and requires just a few minutes. A link to sign up will be available at the start of the year.
"Those few minutes during a routine dental visit literally saved my life," Melissa says. "Early detection gave me my life back, more time with my family, more opportunities to serve, more moments to sing."
At White & Haines Advanced Dentistry, that fight is personal, rooted in a philosophy that sees patients as individuals with families and futures worth protecting.
To learn more about our comprehensive oral cancer screening services, visit our practice page or call us to schedule your routine examination today.
"I'm still here," Melissa says simply. "And that's everything."